Sunday, March 16, 2008

Week 3 with MummaJules - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - I'm growing into it!

Welcome to the thoughts of Mummajules!


This week I have been asked to reflect on my own experiences with communication technologies and how I use them.

Before participating in this class I have not been a real big fan of these modern technologies. One reason I guess, is that my life has been so busy from a practical and needs based perspective (see personal profile), that I have not had the free time to explore these new mediums. If I needed to talk to someone I would just ring them up and get the job done so that I could move on to the next thing. And if it is for social reasons, I would rather meet up with a friend to enjoy their company, and share some time together.

Another reason is that I get frustrated with technology. It is great when it works and really annoying when it doesn't. In a way you have become dependent on it in that it has become your mode of interaction and then when it lets you down, you have nothing else to fall back on. If the net is down, it is down....... and know matter how much you want to type that note, speak to that person, complete that assignment, there is nothing you can do - for the moment. Grrrrr!!!!! I have a saying with my husband Trev, "I dont want to know how it works, I just want it to do the job" Quite ironic, now that I am taking this course, and need to understand the nitty gritty of the workings and functions of New Communication Technology. Life has a way of bringing you around doesn't it?

Email has been the starting point of new communication technologies for me and was originally used more for business back in the 90's, than for personal use. While running a business which designed and manufactured swimwear, email was a daily ritual; sending information to suppliers and contractors in order to keep them all informed, sharing rosters and timetables, forwarding minutes of meetings etc. This proved to be a very successful business tool and an effective form of communication with the added advantage of being able to track each detail and part of the process by having a confirm message sent each time correspondence went out.

The company grew quickly and required a lot of my time, and so alongside business use, personal use of email allowed me to stay in contact with friends all over the world. I love that email is immediate, unlike the older methods of mail taking weeks to send and receive. Being able to attach photos and even video clips to messages means that I can share family events as they are happening and more than just hearing about them, friends are able to see them as well.

Another technology that I use is Skype, with a camera. Allowing me to stay in close and visible contact with each of my four daughters who are living all over the Australia and other parts of the world. To speak to one honeymooning in Thailand, another living in America, another working in Sydney and one locally on the Gold Coast we are able to communicate separately or in conference together. It really is an amazing technology.My only frustration is sometimes the delay or lag that you get on the line.

I have four beautiful daughters who insisted that I have a MySpace page and set it up for me but I am not very good at following up. Before now, I thought that I preferred to share with people that I know, but after checking out some of the other student's blog sites, I realise what a privilege it is to get an insight into the lives and thoughts of these amazing young people. As they share parts of their lives, it brings out the Mumma in me, and has challenged me to consider chatting with new friends.

Another advantage is that it provides me with the opportunity to touch base with people that I may have not seen or heard from in years. Your life moves on, and you lose touch with some friendships, and form new ones as you experience the different seasons of life. These developing methods have definitely exposed me to new opportunities to communicate.

Sunday, March 9, 2008

Week 2 with MummaJules - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Welcome to 'Second Life'

Hi there to whoever is out there to share in the thoughts of Mummajules.

My subject is Communication and Technology and we are looking today at networks of which blogging is one. I will need to go through the process of understanding what kinds of thoughts are relevant for this site. I really have no idea what I am doing at this point but that is why I am here - to learn!!!!

Some thoughts I had in regards to the movie 'Second Life' that we watched in the lecture on Wednesday were:

The founder said that in the Virtual World (with no rules) we discover that people are basically good and yet the rest of the program appeared to reveal the opposite - sex, exploitation and out of control fantasies were talked about as though they become moral because they are not real, and further reasoning, that because they are not real, they're not hurting anyone.

But if 'we are what we think', then does acting things out in a virtual way prevent you emotionally, physically and socially from suffering the consequences of these actions any less than if they were real? eg: You may not experience STD's, but is being unfaithful in your mind, any less damaging than being unfaithful in reality?

You create a perfect you and then a perfect other, but will the dissonance between your reality and your fantasy, not affect your ability to relate to your real partner or experience satisfaction in that relationship? Will the virtual eventually result in a collision of contradictions between what you think you would like, and what you have?
Aristotle has some insights that relate to the subject. Chapter 6, titled "The Soul and Psychology" paragraph 5 in particular got me thinking. Tell me what you think?

Maybe you could help me with some more thoughts that are raised for me.

What drives people to spend more time in the virtual world than in the real world?
And if upon investigation, these virtual worlds proved to be a negative influence on people's wellbeing, would it then be considered exploitation by the founders, to feed this kind of opportunity for fantasy to people, and justify it by suggesting that because it is not real it won't hurt you?
Consider this quote, "Pleasure is not to be identified with good" but
Aristotle appears to have more to say in his chapter 7 on Ethics, where he makes some points about the nature of moral virtues and the ability to regulate our desires.
If you have anything to add either agreeing or opposing these thoughts? I would love to hear from you.

Until next time ...

Enjoy
Rather than acting out in a virtual world, why not consider living, and having fun in the real world...